The legacy of late music legend Oliver Mtukudzi continues to resonate deeply within the hearts of his fans and family. Recently, his daughters Sandra and Selmor opened up about their challenging upbringing, shedding light on their difficult relationship with their stepmother, Daisy. This revelation came to a head during a poignant moment at the Oliver Mtukudzi International Festival of the Arts, where Selmor broke down on stage, prompting discussions about their past.
Selmor’s emotional display at the festival followed a public uproar over her initial omission from the lineup, a move that fans widely criticized. Following her performance, Daisy publicly expressed shock at Selmor’s behavior, labeling it as dramatic and disrespectful. However, this moment of public scrutiny served as a catalyst for the sisters to share their painful experiences from childhood.
In a heartfelt interview on the DJ Ollah 7 podcast, Sandra revealed the mistreatment they faced growing up under Daisy’s care. “We used to be left out of everything. Kubvira tiri vana vadiki taingosiiwa,” she shared, explaining that the children would be left behind while the rest of the family enjoyed vacations. The sisters were often given strict instructions to clean the house, feeling excluded from family activities.
Sandra recounted a specific incident that illustrated the extent of their neglect. “I remember this other day we were invited to a party, all of us as children, and we were so excited about it. Surprisingly, on the day of the event, only Sam and Samantha were allowed to go, and I was given some laundry to do,” she recalled, her voice filled with pain.
The sisters also described the degrading treatment they endured during meal times. “When meals were prepared, mine would be prepared in the same pot as the dog’s,” Sandra revealed, highlighting the disturbing reality they faced daily. This treatment, she explained, further solidified their feelings of exclusion within their own home.
Adding to their anguish, Sandra spoke about a particularly traumatic experience when she was just 16. “I was left alone in Kwekwe while the rest of the family secretly relocated to Norton,” she said, illustrating the deep sense of abandonment that marked her teenage years. This emotional isolation led the sisters to seek solace in their father, often speaking to him behind Daisy’s back, as she would not allow them to communicate freely. Sandra and Selmor’s revelations paint a heartbreaking picture of their childhood. Their experiences resonate with many who have faced similar struggles within blended families, raising important questions about family dynamics and the impact of parental relationships.
As they navigate their own paths as artists and individuals, the sisters carry with them the complex legacy of their father. Their willingness to share their story serves as a reminder of the resilience of the human spirit and the importance of addressing and healing from past traumas. In a world where mental health and emotional well-being are increasingly recognized, Sandra and Selmor’s candidness invites conversations about the hidden struggles many face, emphasizing the need for empathy, support, and understanding within families.
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