Renowned South African actor Setlhabi Taunyane, widely recognized for his role as Bra Kop on *Rhythm City*, has bravely shared the personal struggles he and his wife have faced due to xenophobic attitudes within his family. In a candid interview on the King David Studio podcast, Taunyane revealed the painful reality of familial rejection rooted in his wife’s Zimbabwean nationality.
In the emotional interview, Taunyane described how his family has never fully accepted his wife, a situation that has cast a long shadow over their relationship. He recounted a recent incident where he learned of a family member’s passing without being informed, underscoring the ongoing estrangement he feels.
“My family never really accepted my wife,” Taunyane said, reflecting on the enduring tension. “I just heard two days ago, that one of my cousins in Diepkloof was buried two weeks ago and no one phoned me.”
The actor, who has been married for over 17 years, noted that the hostility from his family has been a persistent issue. He revealed that the term “Lekwere-kwere,” a derogatory term for foreigners in South Africa, has often been used to describe his wife, highlighting the xenophobic attitudes he has encountered.
Taunyane spoke of how the familial rejection has not only affected their personal lives but has also led to broader societal discrimination. He emphasized that the exclusion from family events and gatherings has become a norm, something he has had to accept and live with. “It starts with the family, but once you are abandoned by your family, this thing grows bigger, even outside the family,” he explained.
Despite these challenges, Taunyane’s love story with his wife is one of deep connection and affection. He shared a poignant recollection of their first meeting, which occurred under unexpected circumstances. Taunyane described how he first saw his wife while buying Magwinya (South African doughnuts) and felt an instant connection. “One day I went to buy Magwinya and saw this woman running. My heart went ‘boom boom,’ and I ran after her. I said ‘sorry sis, mangikumoshela isikhathi, ngifuna ukukhuluma nawe’ (sorry ma’am, sorry for wasting your time, can I talk to you).”
He recalled how his wife initially brushed him off due to her hurry but later reached out to him, leading to the beginning of their relationship. Taunyane’s reflections also touched on his broader beliefs in Pan-Africanism and Black Consciousness. He shared how these ideals shaped his outlook on love and identity. Growing up, he envisioned marrying someone from Zimbabwe or Ghana, reflecting his deep sense of African unity and identity.
However, his journey was not without obstacles, as he faced rejection from potential partners in Ghana and Jamaica before finding his future wife in South Africa. Setlhabi Taunyane’s story is a powerful testament to enduring love in the face of adversity and societal prejudice. His openness about the challenges posed by xenophobia and family rejection not only sheds light on personal struggles but also contributes to a broader dialogue on acceptance and unity within diverse communities.
In other news – Zimbabwe and Cameroon end Africa Cup of Nations Qualifier in goalless draw
In a fiercely contested match, Zimbabwe managed to secure a 0-0 draw against five-time African champions Cameroon in a crucial Group J qualifier for the 2025 Africa Cup of Nations. The game, held at Mandela National Stadium last night, showcased Zimbabwe’s resilience and defensive strength.
Despite facing a team with Cameroon’s pedigree, the Warriors stood firm and restricted the Indomitable Lions to zero shots on target. Zimbabwe’s defense, led by captain Marshall Munetsi, was resolute throughout the match. Read More
