I, Khensani Stella Mabasa, extend my most heartfelt and sincere apology for the pain, distress, and trauma caused by recent events over the past week. This has been one of the most difficult periods of my life—not only for me, but for all of you who have supported and loved me through the years. Please know that I carry deep regret and sorrow in my heart.
I want to make it absolutely clear that I am not proud of the situation I find myself in. As Khensani Stella Mabasa, I never expected to be thrust into such exposure and humiliation, especially knowing I hold many roles that others depend on—I am a mother, sister, aunt, friend, and daughter. Regardless of the circumstances, I acknowledge that my actions have impacted more than just me, and for that, I take full accountability.
Forgiveness and Reflection from Khensani Stella Mabasa
The truth is, a close friend—now someone I can only regard as an enemy—betrayed my trust by stealing my phone and sharing personal content without my consent. Although I was the one targeted, the ripple effects of this betrayal have touched many innocent lives. I have learned the hard way that not everyone we trust deserves that trust, and this lesson will remain with me forever.
To the Mabasa family and the Baloyi clan, I know that my actions have brought shame and pain. To my elders who nurtured and guided me—I offer my deepest apologies. You deserve better than this, and I am so sorry for hurting and disappointing you. To the young ones who look up to me as a role model, please understand this moment does not define the totality of who I am. I hope to regain your trust in time.
To my dear friends, supportive neighbours, and colleagues who have shown me love and kindness, I humbly ask for your forgiveness. I know this ordeal has been as difficult for you as it has been for me. You were dragged into something you never asked for, and I deeply regret the hurt this has caused. Please believe that Khensani Stella Mabasa never intended to put any of you in a position where you’d have to defend or explain my actions.
As Khensani Stella Mabasa, I acknowledge that apologies alone are not enough. Redemption will require time, action, and a sincere effort to restore what has been damaged. I promise to do the inner work necessary to heal, grow, and rebuild broken relationships.
Please accept this letter not just as an apology, but as a commitment to becoming a better version of myself—one worthy of your forgiveness and renewed trust.
With humility, sorrow, and love,
Khensani Stella Mabasa
